Loving Losing & Living Loving, Losing, and Living is one woman's spiritual journey of how her faith and trust in God helped her through the death of her 32 year old husband who was killed in a car accident. In a five-year period, her status changed from virgin to married to widow and single mother of two small children. Her faith in God as healer of all wounds, both physical and emotional is what got her through the roughest time of her life. She declares that prayer and praise helped her to the other side of the rainbow, where there was something wonderful awaiting her, after